Saturday, July 04, 2009

Jeans never tasted so sweet

I wonder if you, like me, can remember mornings in your childhood where all you could think about was getting dressed. Maybe there was a special outfit. Or maybe getting dressed was the last 'task' standing in between you and somewhere awesome you couldn't wait to go.

I can bring back a few memories of little me getting ready in the morning. The night before the first day of school for 1st grade. I set out my light blue top and blue pants with tiny pink dots and white high top shoes. I remember laying the shirt above the pants flat on the floor and sitting still for awhile envisioning myself in that outfit. My attachment to those hand-me-down items was palpable. I was happy.

I can also remember at a young age learning the lessons around color matching. I can still remember my purple sweater with red hearts. I know every girl, of all ages, who passed through the '80's had something red and purple, and probably geometry came into the equasion too which shapes being the rage then.

But not suprisingly, at that age I had no clue thousands of people owned purple sweaters with red hearts. Mine was special. Mine was lovely. And I wanted to wear it all the time. I recall one day my mom having to explain to me that I couldn't wear my favorite skirt with my favorite top. 'I get that you love them both alot, but they aren't for wearing on the same day...' was the message.

The details around the skirt are a little fuzzy. I'm thinking it was pastel, maybe striped, I don't know for sure but I do remember it beginning to sink in that it the two pieces maybe weren't the best mates...

This morning I woke up excited to get ready. In a rush to get dressed you could say. Not because I am headed to Disneyland or because I bought a great new wardrobe item. In fact it's 6am on a Saturday and I would rather not be awake and heading to a dr appointment, but those are the facts.

The last few months have brought with them arduous battles of bulges. Yes, plural. I've honestly been living in yoga-ish clothing (though make no mistake I hate yoga) as it has been the only items in my wardrobe that have fit. The idea of having 10 out of 500 pieces of clothing that fit may sound concerning to you. And you may have noticed I haven't worn jeans or anything beyond a tank top or man sized t-shirt of late. And while it's been hot and sweaty here in Washington, that isn't the reason for the simple, reduced attire.

I haven't gotten obese. I realize that. But, my wardrobe unfortunately was filled with alot of items that simply had no flex room. Anyone who's fluxuated in size knows that there are certain weights or sizes that bring with them tighter clothing that just frankly have little flexibility.

And so my wardrobe would not forgive the 10 or 15 pounds I'd added. I had been flucuating, losing 5lbs and then gaining them--and then awhile back it just kept creepin up. Ya know, one step forward (a good workout and healthy dinner) and two steps back (that 4th meal from taco bell at 9pm after a full dinner) and before you know it I was banished from anything except my 'sloppy wear.'

I've been working out hard lately. And not giving in to the munchies. On vacation I had access to a gym and lots of free time on my hands so my workouts were extended and consistent. And since returning last week I've been building on that progress and the weeks before.

At some point in the last 3 months inevitably there was a day where I wanted to wear my jeans and sadly, trying to do so brought bad news. And I did try a few times after but those attempts served as a wake up call that it was more than just an lb or 2 that stood in my way.

Mind you, we are NOT talking about 'skinny jeans' (which is a term I don't care for, btw) we ARE talking about my 'everyday jeans' - which might help you vicariously feel the sting of dissapointment I lived with having my 'normal' duds out of the 'working zone'....

Anyway, as I ran my hands around my midsection in the past few days (which I do often, multiple times daily) to take stock of how much extra is there, I felt progress. The tire is deflating if you will. And yesterday I decided that today would be the day that I would retrieve the jeans and learn the truth of whether they were ready to have me back.

I am wearing said jeans as I write. That's the good news. The really good news. The bad news? Well, they are a bit tight. True, they are tight jeans, which is why this whole problem surfaced to begin with, but today they're really tight. But I can fasten them! And I can get away with wearing them. And I am stoked. Just a few more days. Probably by next weekend they'll fit like they used to.

I'm thinking I may put up with the inevitable marks around my mid-section which I will no doubt have by noon today, just because I am that ready to go out into public in something other than gym-ish materials.

I suppose the upswing to being headed to a dr appointment which will involve disrobing is that by the time I get there, today I may want to take my clothes off.

Tuesday, June 09, 2009

Both Aacck and Aawww

Sometimes I think Survivor has got it all wrong sending people into the jungle. Sure there's something to be said for having to weave one's own underwear and out-swim that strange naked guy (who's challenged in the weaving department) to reach the massive floating deck and bouy that are for some reason situated out in the amazon river.

Most of you know I am a part-time nanny. It's a hell of a job. I love it actually. But some days, boy does it have a way of testing that love. There are moments I flirt with insanity--but the good news is--that passes as quickly as it came. On the plus side, there is no long-standing stress as with projects at the office. No heart-less HR people. But, I wonder if there should be a 'childcare component' to the Survivor competition.

Today, I was so stretched I experienced angst-induced laughter. You know where you're so crazed you begun to bubble over with giggles?

Yea, today was tough. Funny thing is, now that I've been away from the kiddos for 2 hours, had a good dinner and am starting on a beer, I already miss those two boogers. Aren't pressurized situations supposed to be bonding? I think I can attest to that.

Here is an outline of my day:

Scene 1 / Beth and Ellie with play-doh

Beth: Ellie, I brought you some new play-doh
Ellie: Does it come with cutting tools?
Beth: No, cuz your old set has cutting tools. We can use those.
Ellie: I think the cutting tools are in that box.
Beth: No, see how the box is tiny? It can't fit cutting tools, but you already have some right over here.
Ellie: Where are the cutting tools?
Beth: Right here.
Ellie: Where's the rhinoceros one?
Beth: There isn't one.. you mean the horse?
Ellie: This is a rhinoceros.
Beth: Actually thats a horse.
Ellie: Beth, what is this?
Beth: It's a horse.

*Griffen in background begins to cry, Beth begins to tend to him*

Ellie: Beth can you play with me?
Beth: I need to check on your brother.
Ellie: Beth can you sit next to me right here?
Beth: I need to sit by Griffers for awhile.

*2 minutes of silence*

Ellie: Can you please play with me? Sit here.

*Etc. Etc. Repeat.*

-End Scene-

Scene 2 / Beth and Ellie at Sbuxs

Beth: Ellie, do you want anything? Something to drink or eat?
Ellie: Look at my shoe Beth.
Beth: Do you want juice? hot chocolate? a muffin? (takes Ellie out of stroller)

*Ellie does not answer and runs with abandon to table and chairs*

Beth: I'll have a 1% SFV latte.

*Beth joins Ellie on cushy chairs*
*Beth briefly gets up to retrieve drink and returns*

Ellie: Where's my drink?

*Beth walks back to cashier* (So much for thinking Ellie didn't want anything)

Beth: What drinks do you recommend for kids?
Barista: Hot apple juice, blended smoothies, maybe strawberries and creme?
Beth: We'll try the strawberries and creme.
Barista: Good choice. You'll be a big hit with that one.

*Beth returns with Ellie's drink*

Ellie: Where's my hot chocolate?
Beth: Look! This is pink and has cream in it. It's yummy!
Ellie: I want hot chocolate. (To her credit she said it matter-of-factly, not as a whine)
Beth: Try this instead!

*Beth tastes and says, "Ooh, it's good."* (FYI, that was a lie. I don't like cream in my drinks)

Ellie: I don't like it.

*Beth sets drink down and sighs heavily*
*90 seconds of Ellie jumping on chair*
*Ellie picks up strawberries and creme and drinks it*

Beth: Do you like it now? Is it good?

*Ellie does not respond. Continues drinking*
*Ellie continues squirming*
*Ellie decides to put drink down but misses table next to her chair*
*Drink splatters everywhere*

Ellie: Beth! My drink!

*Beth proceeds to ask barista for wet rag*
*Barista proceeds to keep Beth waiting*
*5 minutes of waiting*
*Beth contemplates leaving mess and leaving shop if they don't hand over a damn rag soon*

Ellie: The floor is wet Beth!

*Beth returns with rag and mops it up*
*Beth realizes rag wont be enough and gets 10 napkins too*
*Beth kneels down to further wipe up*

Ellie: (while sitting on chair) Beth can you stand up on the floor please?

*Beth ignores Ellie who doesn't realize she can't stand up AND clean*

Ellie: Can you stand up please?

**This might be where I began to go crazy**

Ellie: What are you doing?
Beth: Cleaning up the mess.

Ellie: Why are you wiping Beth?
Beth: Because when we (you) make a mess we (I) have to clean it up.

Ellie: The floor, it's still dirty.
Beth: No, thats just water. It'll dry.

*Beth begins to wearily and uncontrollably giggle*
*Beth returns rag to Barista*

Barista: You are so sweet. Most people just jet out and let us deal with the mess.

*Beth wishes 'kid drinks' came in kid-friendly cups*
*Beth proceeds to snap a few photos of Ellie with phone in between more questions and squirming*

Ellie: Can I see the pictures?
Beth: Ellie, your sunglasses are on up-side-down. (Beth fixes sunglasses)

*Ellie takes sunglasses off*
*60 seconds later Ellie puts them on again, up-side-down again*

Ellie: Is my game waiting for me at home?
Beth: Yes it is.
Ellie: Is it at home?
Beth: Yes it is.

*Beth proceeds to check time and begins process of leaving sbux for home*

*Etc. Etc. Multiply. Repeat.*

- End Scene -

There is more I could write about my day. Of the adventures of Ellie's teething baby brother-who didn't nap ALL day and cried alot and didn't want anything and didn't get better with Tylenol. Of the other questions from Ellie repeated again and again, over and over. Oh how many times I answered her questions on whether cherries have seeds and where the seeds go when you eat them... Etc. Etc.

Tomorrow is a new day. I'm hoping for just a few less questions and a few less tears from baby Griffey. But even if it's a repeat of today, I'll find a way to love it. I've always thought I would be good on Survivor.

Saturday, May 16, 2009

Don't try to sell a 3 year old a Townhome

Last night we had friends over for dinner. In an attempt to interest their 3 year old I mentioned to him that we had a deck he could play on if he wanted to be outside. So we step through the sliding glass door which is off our living room and out onto our modestly sized 10' by 4' (approx) balcony and he's like, "So, uh, where is it? Where can I go?" and I was like, "Uh, so, uh yea, this is the deck..." He genuinely looked confused and repeated his question.

Welcome to the city kid. Space is a premium. Truthfully I pretty much said the same as he when several months earlier (prior to adapting to In-Seattle living) I left our friends place which is just a few blocks from ours and noticed their balcony was more of a ledge than a deck... If you think mine is tiny, their deck is so small it's literally standing room only. I hear it's called a Julliete or something?

It was then that I mentioned to Nick that I didn't quite understand whether it made sense to build a deck so small that it couldn't house even one small folding chair. That's when I had MY "Welcome to the city" moment. So Owen, I'm totally with you... Yea, it's not much of a play area and who was I to think I could fool you. Lesson learned, don't underestimate a 3 year olds ability to spot real estate flaws...

Truthfully a few years ago I wouldn't have thought myself a potential townhome owner, but after life in Hong Kong this place feels near heavenly and there are real pluses to living IN the city. And just FYI, our neighbors are quiet, the neighborhood well manicured. It's close to enough stuff, far away from enough stuff. I don't miss having a yard although that may change when us 2 become 3 or 4 or 5.

It more than works for now. It's lovely. But I guess I might want to host birthday parties for young children elsewhere. Just in case they want to play outside. But if in a pinch I learned a pug dog and bowl of candy can work absolute magic, atleast with Owen.

Sunday, February 22, 2009

My Official Oscars Ballot!

I'm here at Cam's Oscar party and while my previous post included vague-ish reviews, the time has come to lay down my OFFICIAL PICKS/FINAL ANSWER before the show begins!

Actor, Leading: Mickey Rourke in "The Wrestler"
Actor, Supporting: Heath Ledger in "The Dark Knight"
Actress, Leading: Melissa Leo in "Frozen River"
Actress, Supporting: Penelope Cruz in "Vicky Cristina Barcelona"
Animated Feature: "Kung Fu Panda"
Art Direction: "The Dark Knight"
Cinematography: "Changeling"
Costume Design: "The Duchess"
Directing: "Slumdog Millionaire"
Documentary Feature: "The Garden"
Documentary Short: "Smile Pinki"
Film Editing: "The Dark Knight"
Foreign Language Film: "Departures"
Makeup: "The Curious Case of Benjamin Button"
Original Score: "Slumdog Millionaire"
Original Song: "Jai Ho" from "Slumdog Millionaire"
Best Picture: "Slumdog Millionaire"
Short Film, Animated: "Oktapodi"
Short Film, Live Action: "The Pig"
Sound Editing: "Slumdog Millionaire"
Sound Mixing: "The Dark Knight"
Visual Effects: "The Dark Knight"
Screenplay, Adapted: "Slumdog Millionaire"
Screenplay, Original: "Milk"

BTW, The hardest Award to decide would be the Best Leading Actress. SO hard to decide between Anne Hathaway and Melissa Leo. Between those two I think Anne Hathaway would be more likely to win, but all of my picks above are not representative of who I think WILL win but rather who I think SHOULD win. Melissa just SO became the character, despite the rest of the movie being pretty poor and despite the fact that she's not been nominated for previous awards and not won (such as Kate Winslet, which I and other people think makes her the likely favorite) in the end I decided on Melissa...

Tuesday, February 17, 2009

And My Support Goes To...

I'm not a huge award show follower. Like alot of people I would guess, if I catch the Grammys or Academy Awards it's due to coincidence that I'm home and in the mood to watch TV.

For the most part movies aren't my thing. Or atleast they weren't, I'm not sure exactly where our relationship stands right now. Similar to books, I dont have much patience for mediocrity. And, it can be hard to find folks with taste similar to mine when it comes to recommendations. One must remember that I don't care for Lord of The Rings, Men in Black, Top Gun, The Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Coneheads (ok, who did like that one?) and Rudy, Jerry Maguire, etc. On the other hand movies I have liked have been, Silence of the Lambs, Se7en, Runaway Jury, Napoleon Dynamite, Manhatten Murder Mystery, and America's Sweethearts.

I decided this year to prep for the Oscars. This year I would not root for this actress simply cuz she was good in the last film I saw her in, or root for that movie simply cuz it was the only one I'd seen... no, this time around I wanted the right to have a real opinion.

There are of course, oodles of categories under which academy awards are given. I committed to watching those nominated for the following 'Best' awards: Performance by an Actor in a Leading Role, Performance by an Actress in a Leading Role, Performance by an Actor in a Supporting Role, Performance by an Actress in a Supporting Role, and Best Picture.

My goal was not so much to lay down clear bets on who or what will win after completing viewing. Honestly, there are some ways in which I don't feel qualified to comment.

Coincidentally I saw all pictures nominated for Achievement in Directing, Achievement in Art Direction, Achievement in Film Editing and Best Adapted Screenplay. Far be it from me to comment on directing and art direction as I can't pin down what aspects of each film the Editor versus Director versus Cameramen deserve credit for.

As it is, I feel a bit challenged in identifying Oscar worthy acting--it's easier to identify that which definately doesn't deserve an award. But to boil down what it takes to impress me, I look most for the actor to help me forget that I am watching a portrayal of a story versus witnessing the story first hand. I look for showing of genuine emotion, for consistency, for the character to be played with depth, with well-roundedness, with honesty. I look for a 'marriage' between the actor and character, almost as though it were destined for that person to play that part. I look for the actor to make it unlikely that I'll be distracted by images of them in previous roles they played.

Armed with knowledge of my standards in judgement, and with knowledge of the types of movies I tend to like and dislike, perhaps you can meld the following (brief and randomly assembled) opinions with your own.

Happy Oscar watching!

The Visitor (Richard Jenkins)
The storyline revolves around Richard's character who owns a second apartment which is illegally rented out during his absense to two illegal aliens (who don't know the apartment was not owned by their landlord) Richards character has pity on the dwellers and lets them hang around for awhile. One of them teaches him how to play the drums and thus a connection begins. Richard helps them fight extradition and really, that's the bulk of the movie. I was pretty underwhelmed by the film and was left wondering why Richard had made it into the 'Lead Actor' category. If it doesn't win any awards I will lose no sleep.

Frost/Nixon (Frank Lagelia)
I'll be upfront that despite the scope of the Nixon scandal the subject has never been able to keep my interest. While this angle on the historical event was a bit different from other attempts, I felt it was unable to legitimatize itself where I was concerned. I found it boring and par for the course. Nothing special. Frank as Nixon grated on my nerves. Not limited to this film, I find it especially hard to watch movies where an actor is portraying someone I have knowledge of or images of in my memory. The simple fact that Frank doesn't look like Nixon created a huge barrier in my mind. This film created confusion as I tried to grasp why the heck it had been nominated. Again, perhaps there was something special where Directing or Editing was concerned, but the acting left me with that all-too familiar feeling that 2 hours is just too long to sit.

Milk (Sean Penn/Josh Brolin)
I didn't previously know anything about Mr. Milk's story, so take that into consideration. I'd put this film in the 'worth watching' and 'well executed' categories and maybe with less awesome movies as competition it might have made my list for award worthy. Sean Penn does tend to appear similar in his various roles and several times I felt I heard him speaking as Sam from 'I am Sam' which is unfortunate. Josh Brolin was nominated for supporting, I thought he was fine in the role, but not fantastic. Overall, not sure it cuts the award mustard, but it's not a waste of time to watch, so do so and judge for yourself.

The Curious Case of Benjamin Button (Brad Pitt/Taraji P. Henson)
Sorry, but I plain didn't connect with this movie. It was one of the hardest to get through. I found Cate Blanchetts character annoying and the storyline unable to offer anything I like in a movie. I didn't even like the 'special' filming techniques. As unique as the storyline appeared, it hit me as uncreative. In one word I'd call it overrated. Frankly, I want my two+ hours back. I will say however that I make no claim on whether or not it deserves an Art Direction or Achiement in Makeup award. Despite the story not being entertaining to me, I fully admit there might be other aspects that were executed spectacularly. To ensure I don't gloss over the specific actors nominated, I'll make it clear none impressed me. I particularly have no patience for Southern accents gone wrong. It seems they are the hardest to execute and when it's off, boy it is crazy-making. Cate's attempt at an accent was the worst. This movie has it's fans though I can't figure out why.

The Wrestler (Mickey Rourke/Marisa Tomei)
It's a sad story. A has-been wrestler trying to revamp his popularity and wants to 'settle down' with a stripper (from a joint he frequents) whom he has interest in. He's not been a good father to his young adult daughter who eventually disowns him after allowing him another shot or two (he fails, mainly due to drug addiction) at melding into her life. I was impressed with Mickey Rourke. He thoroughly became the role. This part was meant for him. I've not seen any of his previous work, but assume none of it came close to his execution of the Wrestler. By far, I think he deserves the 'Actor in a Leading Role' award. Good luck Mickey! Marisa on the otherhand was completely forgetable for me. No clue why she received a nomination.

Tropic Thunder (Robert Downey Jr.)
Comedies are the underdogs when it comes to academy awards and a part of me would be alright with Robert Downey Jr. winning simply because I feel it's a crime how overlooked comedians are when it comes to acknowledging works of art and entertainment. Tropic Thunder made me laugh multiple times. Though I gotta say probably more due to Ben Stiller's work than Robert who was nominated as a supporting actor. While this was a funny film--and Ben and Robert and everyone in it really, did an amazing job--I think it would not be right for Robert to win out over the other nominees. The competition is steep. And it's not right to award this work simply because comedies don't usually fair well.

Doubt (Philip Seymour Hoffman/Meryl Streep/Amy Adams/Viola Davis)
I enjoyed this film. It raised the question of whether Philip as a catholic priest/teacher had had inappropriate relationships with a student, or several students over his career. The film ended in leaving the audience to interpret some realities and overall I felt nothing was out of place. The parts were well acted, the story well played out. There is no confusion on why several of the actors in it were nominated for various roles. But, in my view Viola Davis should do without the award. Meryl who often is great was just adequate, par for the course of the role. Amy Adams impressed me, but not to a degree that I'm willing to say she definately deserves an award--she'd be my second pick for supporting actress. Philip was also adequate and did not dissapoint, but he's got steep competition and therefore I'd vote against his winning the supporting actor award.

The Dark Knight (Heath Ledger)
I enjoyed this film. The inclusion of Maggie Gyllenhaal was mystifying to me as I don't find her talented enough for a movie of this caliber nor is she believable as a 'temptress' in my opinion. I suppose that should be neither here nor there as she wasn't nominated in any category. I'd question whether you are breathing if you've not heard atleast a few words regarding Heath Ledger's performance in this picture. Perhaps the publicity was in part due to his untimely passing, in part due to critical aclaim of his work. All the talk I heard left me expecting this picture to be the best piece of entertainment made since the invention of the camera. It wasn't. It was good, Ledger was good and rocked as the Joker. But it wasn't mind blowing against the praise he received for it. Still, I would see it as appropriate if he won the supporting actor award. Of those nominated he was the most impressive.

Revolutionary Road (Michael Shannon)
I generally don't take to well to films set in the 50s/60's, yet I found it easy to engage in this film. The dynamics between Kate and Leo as husband and wife were authentic and the storyline consistent and a unique take on that time in history. I appreciated that it wasn't just another script leaving us thinking women were equal to slaves before office jobs were commonly available to them and that all a wife's problems would have been erased if only she'd not been expected to find fulfillment in making dinner and tending to the house or kids. It was an enlightening, and sad film. I enjoyed it, though not much due to Michael Shannons contibution. Seeing as how it was nominated for so few awards (major ones anyway) I am expecting it to walk away with none.

Rachel Getting Married (Anne Hathaway)
I'll be upfront that I'm not an Anne Hathaway fan. I've never really cared for her work. For one, her eyes scare me. She's got a cute-gone-awry look; you know, should be nice to look at and yet somehow, for me, definately is not and yes that matters. You can be plain like Meryl Streep, but you can't be almost cute. It's distracting. In general Anne's acting, well, it's fine I suppose for the type of roles she tends to attract. Her work in dramas and comedies all seems to have a similar thread. That said, this is her best work as far as what I've witnessed. She didn't detract from the movie. The storyline was fantastic. The best part of this movie for me was the script. The conversations and situations were so true to life and the actors turned the dialogue into exquisitely real interractions. I am a total fan of this movie. In my opinion it should have received a nomination for best picture (swap out with Frost/Nixon) and if it had it would have been my second pick to receive that award. I would've liked to see Rosemarie DeWitt (who plays Rachel) nominated for supporting actress. Definately see this!

Changeling (Angelina Jolie)
Boy was this an unexpected tear-jerker. I guess I didn't quite know the storyline involved mass murder, but that made for dramatics which I am attracted to. It's based on a true story which means it gets marks from me right off the bat. The script was super-unimpressive however. Angelina was completely underwhelming as her lines were limited to, "I want my son back," and "That's not my son." I swear she uttered the words "my son" more than a hundred times. Still, I would recommend this film for viewing. I'm not surprised it made it to the Oscar nomination list, but for Angelina as best supporting actress? That makes no sense to me. Enjoying a film doesn't make it award worthy--I'll be very dissapointed in the lack of justice in the process if she wins.

Frozen River (Melissa Leo)
As with Mickey Rourke, I'd never heard of Melisssa or seen any of her work prior to this film. That may contribute to my wondering if this role simply channelled aspects of her real-life personality. Her performance was so consistent and dead on. It's always a little more magical if you perceive the actress had to undergo a huge transformation to embody a character. Not knowing how far off this role was for Melissa adds difficulty in assessing whether I should vote for her receiving the lead actress award over Anne Hathaway. Melissa plays a single mom desperate to make extra money to keep her kids sheltered, in their trailor home. She ends up busing illegal aliens into town (stowed in her car trunk) but eventually is caught. Although the pic was worth my time as I see it, please note the other actors in this film were HORRIBLE. Yet, I almost want Melissa to win just in support of my like of small films making the big time. But where limited budgeting gives way to wanna-be actors landing parts way before they are ready... that's an unfortunate tragedy, and I'd be shocked and dissapointed if Misty Upham (plays opposite Melissa) finds work in any other movies in the near future.

The Reader (Kate Winslet)
This movie was just ok for me and would be categorized as one I watched only in effort to prep for the Oscars. The storyline was pretty simplistic. Kate's character meets a young boy would 'befriends' her, reading to her--amongst other services. It pretty quickly becomes the 'Kate Winslet Boob Show' and no, that's not just me being a prude. A good creative writer knows that exclaimation points are to be used sparingly. Art lovers might be able to argue the place for nudity (maybe an exclaimation point? But even so, maybe not... I don't know) but skin and more skin as in this picture amounted to an awkward and clumsy attempt at transparency of the characters. I was touched by Kate Winslets ability to play such a stark character with little softness, who felt unable to connect to the consequences of her actions. Her character was despised by some for good reason, and yet I came away feeling compassionate, not hating. Overall, an Oscar is too lofty a reward for this picture.

Vicky Cristina Barcelona (Penelope Cruz)
The storyline of 3 women (2 of them best friends) who are intimate with one man falls into the bizzare for me. The film is narrated by a male who plays no character in the movie, and that set-up isn't one I tend to like. Penelope and Scarlett Johansen play two girls who become intertwined with a Spanish gentleman, Penelope being the mans ex-wife--I've decided to keep the recount couth and PG 13. Frankly, it isn't a stellar film, so my glossing over certain details is not a tragedy. The films bright spot was Penelope's performance. She's not an actress I've ever thought of as award worthy, however this role highlighted a depth in her abilities that I had no idea existed. There are critics who claim Penelope is best in roles that allow her to use her Spanish language skills and after viewing this film I'd agree with that perspective. She has some English lines, however being the film takes place in Barcelona her accent is a plus not a distraction. Despite my wishing this film was not itself, ie not overtly sexual, Penelope does receive my vote to receive the supporting actress award. She did bring the story to another level and left me wanting to see her take on more roles that play to her strengths.

Nominations for Best Picture: 'The Curious Case of Benjamin Button', 'Frost/Nixon', 'Milk', 'The Reader', 'Slumdog Millionaire'

Given that 4 out of 5 of these films have already been reviewed above, it should be no suprise at which one receives my vote for Best Picture.... Slumdog Millionaire!! This picture is a MUST-see. It may be the only film I have no criticism of. I am even a fan of the music video played following the actual film, during the credits! The film revisits the life of a poor Indian boy who as a young adult ends up on the gameshow Millionare and proceeds to pass level after level drawing speculation that he's cheating his way through. It simply can't be true that he had honest knowledge of each of the random topics the game selects as he is in 'the hot seat.' The film works backward letting us in on his unique history and the life events (all extremely tragic and perhaps unfortunately typical of a 'slumdog' in India) which exposed him to pop culture, history and political answers that paved the way for success on the game show. I may be biased given there's a place in my heart for India's culture and people--but really, I am only one of many (probably the majority) that feel this is picture is hands-down worthy of the 'Best Picture' award. Watch it with Kleenex nearby.

That's all she wrote folks! Until Sunday :)

In Defense of Amber

The hubby thinks I made a huge mistake buying amber colored dishes. Last night he held two of our new wine glasses up over his eyes and proceeded to mimic a 70's-like lady with iced-tea colored lenses in her oversized aviator style glasses.

"Amber," he says (after I informed him what the color was called), "is sooo outdated. Everybody knows this."

I will agree that glass, with any hint of brownish color, does conjur up telltale decades-old images of lemon yellow, avocado green and amber flowered chair coverings and large owl or fox shaped gold brooches.

But, with regards to styles and colors--one reason I love thrift-store shopping (I refuse to be fussy or proud and refer to it only as 'vintage' shopping) is because every color does have it's place. Some hues were never meant to be the star of any show. Some play better with others. Some are pleasing on their own. Amber, in my opinion, looks stunning in the right role--that probably not being how it was used 35 years ago.

Would I pick amber colored bridesmaid dresses? No. Would I like amber colored couches? Pretty sure not ever. Amber colored car? Amber colored walls or carpet? Probably not.

I do fear that it's the specific combination of glass with amber that really channels the years of 'Free Love' as was the kind term for fornication and other kinds of sin cooked up in Volkswagen buggies and wherever. Yes, colored glass does require bravery if you decide to befriend it, and expect to be expected to champion your decision. Even so, I will go ahead with this here plan and attempt to backup my kitchen-y purchases.

Our new townhome has many different colors running throughout it. Tan walls, a shiny metal staircasing, speckled granite countertops, black and metal appliances, bamboo flooring, etc...

I am a preacher of picking your neutrals. What I mean by that is... as an example, Nick is now well-schooled (by me of course) in picking accent colors for outfits. "No can wear black AND brown together." That's my rule. I can't tolerate blue jeans and black socks and brown shoes and a yellow shirt and blue jacket. I don't know if I could manage a second date with someone dressed that way, and thankfully Nick never hit that level. I never saw any mismatched socks (until much after the second date anyway) and that was about as bad as it got, or else my memories of his fashion choices have been altered by that thing called 'lurve.' But then again, this is a guy who has opinions on colored glass, so likely he paid attention...

As I see it, a person can be judged by the clothing they wear, and it's not enough if your threads are freshly laundered. Ouch, that sounds a bit harsh--perhaps add that to the list of perspectives I might need to fine-tune.

Our new house is challenging that notion. It's beautiful, and I am head-over-heals for this abode my hubby is working hard to provide for us. It is, however, full of many different accent colors. The granite countertops showcase every color of mineral. There's metal, black, and several shades of tan as I mentioned above. And, that's not even considering the furniture and rugs and what-not that we'll be adding to the mix!

We did not take a plate set with us on the move to Hong Kong. And once we arrived in our 700sf apartment with a pantry sized kitchen and realized that our work schedules wouldn't allow for much cooking, we decided to buy only the basics. Those plain white basics--which included 3 to 5 miscellaneous plates--have been what we've survived off of over the past three quarters of a year here in Seattle.

That whole reality opened up an opportunity to pick and buy a modest dish set to accompany our new kitchen. We are so excited to get out of this stinkin teeny place and into a 'real' home which we can call our own and fill with 'real' family stuff, like matching dishes.

I'm probably not alone in my thinking that $200 a placesetting China is overrated. But, I'd go even further and say that even seemingly more common Mikasa, or Pfaltzgraff sets are unnecessary. For me, Target fits the bill. The styles and colors please, and the prices--though likely reasonable--test the limits of my budget as it is.

Our new set is the Zanzibar line by Target. The plates are square and feature a black/brown base with 'animal-ish' amber/brown striping around the edge. I gotta tell ya, I don't know if there is a way to describe this set and have it not sound icky without proper pictures. Anything resembling tiger spots or stripes is immediately suspect as I see it. And in many kitchens these pieces would look downright gaudy.

But obviously I decided in favor of the Zanzibar line--and I should mention the hubby likes it too. The stripes are muted and I think the style will tie into our new space marvelously! But, being that it's stark I didn't feel clear glass would be a proper accent. And as far as bowls, it is possible to have too much of a good thing, ie Zanzibar and simple black.

It was also at Target that I found an amber glass serving bowl, perfect for a large salad. I thought it lovely and on sale for $12 I decided it was a go. It answered the question on how I would put together a working dish set without everything screaming Zanzibar. And after the bowl, I spotted tinted wine glasses at Marshall's as well as a set of black bowls (scaled in size) which also mix in nicely.

It's true that tint in wine glasses will interrupt the pure color of the drink from showing. And will Nick be able to properly swirl his red chianti watching it 'form legs' without the clear glass he's used to? I don't know, and that might be a fair arguement against colored stemware.

But, I promise to not throw away the 2 'regular' glasses we have and save them for his continued use; and for any visitors who simply refuse to mix amber with Columbia Crest merlot.

Wine drinkers lived through the color crazy '70s (or are responsible for it) and I think that given my promise to exercise more guardianship over bold colors that we're revisiting from that era, my new home will look absolutely fabulous. Yes, in part due to colored glass.

Friday, February 13, 2009

Triple Feature

I like to think I'm pretty good at singling out uniqueness when it comes to people and their facial features, but recently I've been stumped a time or two by a few actresses fairly new to the scene. I thought the newest add to SNL, Abby Elliott, also acted in Paul Blart: Mall Cop; however this is not the case.
Jayma Mays played Charlie on Ugly Betty, was also in a few episodes of Heroe's and starred in Paul Blart : Mall Cop as the 'Love Interest' Amy.

Abby Elliott is one of the newest adds to SNL. She's yet to justify her place there, IMO, but given Kirsten Wiig is her competition, it's gonna be tough. Anyway, the reason why she's on this list though is her 'girl next door look' which left me thinking it was her that starred in Paul Blart. Although after study of them both, Jayma is clearly much cuter.

Anna Faris looks to have had plastic surgery recently and most often keeps her hair platinum blond, which is helpful in distinguishing her--but looking at photos where she is reddish-blond and caught in a pose which doesn't drill in on her new nose, she also very much has 'cute girl next door' profile as the two above.