Sunday, February 22, 2009

My Official Oscars Ballot!

I'm here at Cam's Oscar party and while my previous post included vague-ish reviews, the time has come to lay down my OFFICIAL PICKS/FINAL ANSWER before the show begins!

Actor, Leading: Mickey Rourke in "The Wrestler"
Actor, Supporting: Heath Ledger in "The Dark Knight"
Actress, Leading: Melissa Leo in "Frozen River"
Actress, Supporting: Penelope Cruz in "Vicky Cristina Barcelona"
Animated Feature: "Kung Fu Panda"
Art Direction: "The Dark Knight"
Cinematography: "Changeling"
Costume Design: "The Duchess"
Directing: "Slumdog Millionaire"
Documentary Feature: "The Garden"
Documentary Short: "Smile Pinki"
Film Editing: "The Dark Knight"
Foreign Language Film: "Departures"
Makeup: "The Curious Case of Benjamin Button"
Original Score: "Slumdog Millionaire"
Original Song: "Jai Ho" from "Slumdog Millionaire"
Best Picture: "Slumdog Millionaire"
Short Film, Animated: "Oktapodi"
Short Film, Live Action: "The Pig"
Sound Editing: "Slumdog Millionaire"
Sound Mixing: "The Dark Knight"
Visual Effects: "The Dark Knight"
Screenplay, Adapted: "Slumdog Millionaire"
Screenplay, Original: "Milk"

BTW, The hardest Award to decide would be the Best Leading Actress. SO hard to decide between Anne Hathaway and Melissa Leo. Between those two I think Anne Hathaway would be more likely to win, but all of my picks above are not representative of who I think WILL win but rather who I think SHOULD win. Melissa just SO became the character, despite the rest of the movie being pretty poor and despite the fact that she's not been nominated for previous awards and not won (such as Kate Winslet, which I and other people think makes her the likely favorite) in the end I decided on Melissa...

Tuesday, February 17, 2009

And My Support Goes To...

I'm not a huge award show follower. Like alot of people I would guess, if I catch the Grammys or Academy Awards it's due to coincidence that I'm home and in the mood to watch TV.

For the most part movies aren't my thing. Or atleast they weren't, I'm not sure exactly where our relationship stands right now. Similar to books, I dont have much patience for mediocrity. And, it can be hard to find folks with taste similar to mine when it comes to recommendations. One must remember that I don't care for Lord of The Rings, Men in Black, Top Gun, The Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Coneheads (ok, who did like that one?) and Rudy, Jerry Maguire, etc. On the other hand movies I have liked have been, Silence of the Lambs, Se7en, Runaway Jury, Napoleon Dynamite, Manhatten Murder Mystery, and America's Sweethearts.

I decided this year to prep for the Oscars. This year I would not root for this actress simply cuz she was good in the last film I saw her in, or root for that movie simply cuz it was the only one I'd seen... no, this time around I wanted the right to have a real opinion.

There are of course, oodles of categories under which academy awards are given. I committed to watching those nominated for the following 'Best' awards: Performance by an Actor in a Leading Role, Performance by an Actress in a Leading Role, Performance by an Actor in a Supporting Role, Performance by an Actress in a Supporting Role, and Best Picture.

My goal was not so much to lay down clear bets on who or what will win after completing viewing. Honestly, there are some ways in which I don't feel qualified to comment.

Coincidentally I saw all pictures nominated for Achievement in Directing, Achievement in Art Direction, Achievement in Film Editing and Best Adapted Screenplay. Far be it from me to comment on directing and art direction as I can't pin down what aspects of each film the Editor versus Director versus Cameramen deserve credit for.

As it is, I feel a bit challenged in identifying Oscar worthy acting--it's easier to identify that which definately doesn't deserve an award. But to boil down what it takes to impress me, I look most for the actor to help me forget that I am watching a portrayal of a story versus witnessing the story first hand. I look for showing of genuine emotion, for consistency, for the character to be played with depth, with well-roundedness, with honesty. I look for a 'marriage' between the actor and character, almost as though it were destined for that person to play that part. I look for the actor to make it unlikely that I'll be distracted by images of them in previous roles they played.

Armed with knowledge of my standards in judgement, and with knowledge of the types of movies I tend to like and dislike, perhaps you can meld the following (brief and randomly assembled) opinions with your own.

Happy Oscar watching!

The Visitor (Richard Jenkins)
The storyline revolves around Richard's character who owns a second apartment which is illegally rented out during his absense to two illegal aliens (who don't know the apartment was not owned by their landlord) Richards character has pity on the dwellers and lets them hang around for awhile. One of them teaches him how to play the drums and thus a connection begins. Richard helps them fight extradition and really, that's the bulk of the movie. I was pretty underwhelmed by the film and was left wondering why Richard had made it into the 'Lead Actor' category. If it doesn't win any awards I will lose no sleep.

Frost/Nixon (Frank Lagelia)
I'll be upfront that despite the scope of the Nixon scandal the subject has never been able to keep my interest. While this angle on the historical event was a bit different from other attempts, I felt it was unable to legitimatize itself where I was concerned. I found it boring and par for the course. Nothing special. Frank as Nixon grated on my nerves. Not limited to this film, I find it especially hard to watch movies where an actor is portraying someone I have knowledge of or images of in my memory. The simple fact that Frank doesn't look like Nixon created a huge barrier in my mind. This film created confusion as I tried to grasp why the heck it had been nominated. Again, perhaps there was something special where Directing or Editing was concerned, but the acting left me with that all-too familiar feeling that 2 hours is just too long to sit.

Milk (Sean Penn/Josh Brolin)
I didn't previously know anything about Mr. Milk's story, so take that into consideration. I'd put this film in the 'worth watching' and 'well executed' categories and maybe with less awesome movies as competition it might have made my list for award worthy. Sean Penn does tend to appear similar in his various roles and several times I felt I heard him speaking as Sam from 'I am Sam' which is unfortunate. Josh Brolin was nominated for supporting, I thought he was fine in the role, but not fantastic. Overall, not sure it cuts the award mustard, but it's not a waste of time to watch, so do so and judge for yourself.

The Curious Case of Benjamin Button (Brad Pitt/Taraji P. Henson)
Sorry, but I plain didn't connect with this movie. It was one of the hardest to get through. I found Cate Blanchetts character annoying and the storyline unable to offer anything I like in a movie. I didn't even like the 'special' filming techniques. As unique as the storyline appeared, it hit me as uncreative. In one word I'd call it overrated. Frankly, I want my two+ hours back. I will say however that I make no claim on whether or not it deserves an Art Direction or Achiement in Makeup award. Despite the story not being entertaining to me, I fully admit there might be other aspects that were executed spectacularly. To ensure I don't gloss over the specific actors nominated, I'll make it clear none impressed me. I particularly have no patience for Southern accents gone wrong. It seems they are the hardest to execute and when it's off, boy it is crazy-making. Cate's attempt at an accent was the worst. This movie has it's fans though I can't figure out why.

The Wrestler (Mickey Rourke/Marisa Tomei)
It's a sad story. A has-been wrestler trying to revamp his popularity and wants to 'settle down' with a stripper (from a joint he frequents) whom he has interest in. He's not been a good father to his young adult daughter who eventually disowns him after allowing him another shot or two (he fails, mainly due to drug addiction) at melding into her life. I was impressed with Mickey Rourke. He thoroughly became the role. This part was meant for him. I've not seen any of his previous work, but assume none of it came close to his execution of the Wrestler. By far, I think he deserves the 'Actor in a Leading Role' award. Good luck Mickey! Marisa on the otherhand was completely forgetable for me. No clue why she received a nomination.

Tropic Thunder (Robert Downey Jr.)
Comedies are the underdogs when it comes to academy awards and a part of me would be alright with Robert Downey Jr. winning simply because I feel it's a crime how overlooked comedians are when it comes to acknowledging works of art and entertainment. Tropic Thunder made me laugh multiple times. Though I gotta say probably more due to Ben Stiller's work than Robert who was nominated as a supporting actor. While this was a funny film--and Ben and Robert and everyone in it really, did an amazing job--I think it would not be right for Robert to win out over the other nominees. The competition is steep. And it's not right to award this work simply because comedies don't usually fair well.

Doubt (Philip Seymour Hoffman/Meryl Streep/Amy Adams/Viola Davis)
I enjoyed this film. It raised the question of whether Philip as a catholic priest/teacher had had inappropriate relationships with a student, or several students over his career. The film ended in leaving the audience to interpret some realities and overall I felt nothing was out of place. The parts were well acted, the story well played out. There is no confusion on why several of the actors in it were nominated for various roles. But, in my view Viola Davis should do without the award. Meryl who often is great was just adequate, par for the course of the role. Amy Adams impressed me, but not to a degree that I'm willing to say she definately deserves an award--she'd be my second pick for supporting actress. Philip was also adequate and did not dissapoint, but he's got steep competition and therefore I'd vote against his winning the supporting actor award.

The Dark Knight (Heath Ledger)
I enjoyed this film. The inclusion of Maggie Gyllenhaal was mystifying to me as I don't find her talented enough for a movie of this caliber nor is she believable as a 'temptress' in my opinion. I suppose that should be neither here nor there as she wasn't nominated in any category. I'd question whether you are breathing if you've not heard atleast a few words regarding Heath Ledger's performance in this picture. Perhaps the publicity was in part due to his untimely passing, in part due to critical aclaim of his work. All the talk I heard left me expecting this picture to be the best piece of entertainment made since the invention of the camera. It wasn't. It was good, Ledger was good and rocked as the Joker. But it wasn't mind blowing against the praise he received for it. Still, I would see it as appropriate if he won the supporting actor award. Of those nominated he was the most impressive.

Revolutionary Road (Michael Shannon)
I generally don't take to well to films set in the 50s/60's, yet I found it easy to engage in this film. The dynamics between Kate and Leo as husband and wife were authentic and the storyline consistent and a unique take on that time in history. I appreciated that it wasn't just another script leaving us thinking women were equal to slaves before office jobs were commonly available to them and that all a wife's problems would have been erased if only she'd not been expected to find fulfillment in making dinner and tending to the house or kids. It was an enlightening, and sad film. I enjoyed it, though not much due to Michael Shannons contibution. Seeing as how it was nominated for so few awards (major ones anyway) I am expecting it to walk away with none.

Rachel Getting Married (Anne Hathaway)
I'll be upfront that I'm not an Anne Hathaway fan. I've never really cared for her work. For one, her eyes scare me. She's got a cute-gone-awry look; you know, should be nice to look at and yet somehow, for me, definately is not and yes that matters. You can be plain like Meryl Streep, but you can't be almost cute. It's distracting. In general Anne's acting, well, it's fine I suppose for the type of roles she tends to attract. Her work in dramas and comedies all seems to have a similar thread. That said, this is her best work as far as what I've witnessed. She didn't detract from the movie. The storyline was fantastic. The best part of this movie for me was the script. The conversations and situations were so true to life and the actors turned the dialogue into exquisitely real interractions. I am a total fan of this movie. In my opinion it should have received a nomination for best picture (swap out with Frost/Nixon) and if it had it would have been my second pick to receive that award. I would've liked to see Rosemarie DeWitt (who plays Rachel) nominated for supporting actress. Definately see this!

Changeling (Angelina Jolie)
Boy was this an unexpected tear-jerker. I guess I didn't quite know the storyline involved mass murder, but that made for dramatics which I am attracted to. It's based on a true story which means it gets marks from me right off the bat. The script was super-unimpressive however. Angelina was completely underwhelming as her lines were limited to, "I want my son back," and "That's not my son." I swear she uttered the words "my son" more than a hundred times. Still, I would recommend this film for viewing. I'm not surprised it made it to the Oscar nomination list, but for Angelina as best supporting actress? That makes no sense to me. Enjoying a film doesn't make it award worthy--I'll be very dissapointed in the lack of justice in the process if she wins.

Frozen River (Melissa Leo)
As with Mickey Rourke, I'd never heard of Melisssa or seen any of her work prior to this film. That may contribute to my wondering if this role simply channelled aspects of her real-life personality. Her performance was so consistent and dead on. It's always a little more magical if you perceive the actress had to undergo a huge transformation to embody a character. Not knowing how far off this role was for Melissa adds difficulty in assessing whether I should vote for her receiving the lead actress award over Anne Hathaway. Melissa plays a single mom desperate to make extra money to keep her kids sheltered, in their trailor home. She ends up busing illegal aliens into town (stowed in her car trunk) but eventually is caught. Although the pic was worth my time as I see it, please note the other actors in this film were HORRIBLE. Yet, I almost want Melissa to win just in support of my like of small films making the big time. But where limited budgeting gives way to wanna-be actors landing parts way before they are ready... that's an unfortunate tragedy, and I'd be shocked and dissapointed if Misty Upham (plays opposite Melissa) finds work in any other movies in the near future.

The Reader (Kate Winslet)
This movie was just ok for me and would be categorized as one I watched only in effort to prep for the Oscars. The storyline was pretty simplistic. Kate's character meets a young boy would 'befriends' her, reading to her--amongst other services. It pretty quickly becomes the 'Kate Winslet Boob Show' and no, that's not just me being a prude. A good creative writer knows that exclaimation points are to be used sparingly. Art lovers might be able to argue the place for nudity (maybe an exclaimation point? But even so, maybe not... I don't know) but skin and more skin as in this picture amounted to an awkward and clumsy attempt at transparency of the characters. I was touched by Kate Winslets ability to play such a stark character with little softness, who felt unable to connect to the consequences of her actions. Her character was despised by some for good reason, and yet I came away feeling compassionate, not hating. Overall, an Oscar is too lofty a reward for this picture.

Vicky Cristina Barcelona (Penelope Cruz)
The storyline of 3 women (2 of them best friends) who are intimate with one man falls into the bizzare for me. The film is narrated by a male who plays no character in the movie, and that set-up isn't one I tend to like. Penelope and Scarlett Johansen play two girls who become intertwined with a Spanish gentleman, Penelope being the mans ex-wife--I've decided to keep the recount couth and PG 13. Frankly, it isn't a stellar film, so my glossing over certain details is not a tragedy. The films bright spot was Penelope's performance. She's not an actress I've ever thought of as award worthy, however this role highlighted a depth in her abilities that I had no idea existed. There are critics who claim Penelope is best in roles that allow her to use her Spanish language skills and after viewing this film I'd agree with that perspective. She has some English lines, however being the film takes place in Barcelona her accent is a plus not a distraction. Despite my wishing this film was not itself, ie not overtly sexual, Penelope does receive my vote to receive the supporting actress award. She did bring the story to another level and left me wanting to see her take on more roles that play to her strengths.

Nominations for Best Picture: 'The Curious Case of Benjamin Button', 'Frost/Nixon', 'Milk', 'The Reader', 'Slumdog Millionaire'

Given that 4 out of 5 of these films have already been reviewed above, it should be no suprise at which one receives my vote for Best Picture.... Slumdog Millionaire!! This picture is a MUST-see. It may be the only film I have no criticism of. I am even a fan of the music video played following the actual film, during the credits! The film revisits the life of a poor Indian boy who as a young adult ends up on the gameshow Millionare and proceeds to pass level after level drawing speculation that he's cheating his way through. It simply can't be true that he had honest knowledge of each of the random topics the game selects as he is in 'the hot seat.' The film works backward letting us in on his unique history and the life events (all extremely tragic and perhaps unfortunately typical of a 'slumdog' in India) which exposed him to pop culture, history and political answers that paved the way for success on the game show. I may be biased given there's a place in my heart for India's culture and people--but really, I am only one of many (probably the majority) that feel this is picture is hands-down worthy of the 'Best Picture' award. Watch it with Kleenex nearby.

That's all she wrote folks! Until Sunday :)

In Defense of Amber

The hubby thinks I made a huge mistake buying amber colored dishes. Last night he held two of our new wine glasses up over his eyes and proceeded to mimic a 70's-like lady with iced-tea colored lenses in her oversized aviator style glasses.

"Amber," he says (after I informed him what the color was called), "is sooo outdated. Everybody knows this."

I will agree that glass, with any hint of brownish color, does conjur up telltale decades-old images of lemon yellow, avocado green and amber flowered chair coverings and large owl or fox shaped gold brooches.

But, with regards to styles and colors--one reason I love thrift-store shopping (I refuse to be fussy or proud and refer to it only as 'vintage' shopping) is because every color does have it's place. Some hues were never meant to be the star of any show. Some play better with others. Some are pleasing on their own. Amber, in my opinion, looks stunning in the right role--that probably not being how it was used 35 years ago.

Would I pick amber colored bridesmaid dresses? No. Would I like amber colored couches? Pretty sure not ever. Amber colored car? Amber colored walls or carpet? Probably not.

I do fear that it's the specific combination of glass with amber that really channels the years of 'Free Love' as was the kind term for fornication and other kinds of sin cooked up in Volkswagen buggies and wherever. Yes, colored glass does require bravery if you decide to befriend it, and expect to be expected to champion your decision. Even so, I will go ahead with this here plan and attempt to backup my kitchen-y purchases.

Our new townhome has many different colors running throughout it. Tan walls, a shiny metal staircasing, speckled granite countertops, black and metal appliances, bamboo flooring, etc...

I am a preacher of picking your neutrals. What I mean by that is... as an example, Nick is now well-schooled (by me of course) in picking accent colors for outfits. "No can wear black AND brown together." That's my rule. I can't tolerate blue jeans and black socks and brown shoes and a yellow shirt and blue jacket. I don't know if I could manage a second date with someone dressed that way, and thankfully Nick never hit that level. I never saw any mismatched socks (until much after the second date anyway) and that was about as bad as it got, or else my memories of his fashion choices have been altered by that thing called 'lurve.' But then again, this is a guy who has opinions on colored glass, so likely he paid attention...

As I see it, a person can be judged by the clothing they wear, and it's not enough if your threads are freshly laundered. Ouch, that sounds a bit harsh--perhaps add that to the list of perspectives I might need to fine-tune.

Our new house is challenging that notion. It's beautiful, and I am head-over-heals for this abode my hubby is working hard to provide for us. It is, however, full of many different accent colors. The granite countertops showcase every color of mineral. There's metal, black, and several shades of tan as I mentioned above. And, that's not even considering the furniture and rugs and what-not that we'll be adding to the mix!

We did not take a plate set with us on the move to Hong Kong. And once we arrived in our 700sf apartment with a pantry sized kitchen and realized that our work schedules wouldn't allow for much cooking, we decided to buy only the basics. Those plain white basics--which included 3 to 5 miscellaneous plates--have been what we've survived off of over the past three quarters of a year here in Seattle.

That whole reality opened up an opportunity to pick and buy a modest dish set to accompany our new kitchen. We are so excited to get out of this stinkin teeny place and into a 'real' home which we can call our own and fill with 'real' family stuff, like matching dishes.

I'm probably not alone in my thinking that $200 a placesetting China is overrated. But, I'd go even further and say that even seemingly more common Mikasa, or Pfaltzgraff sets are unnecessary. For me, Target fits the bill. The styles and colors please, and the prices--though likely reasonable--test the limits of my budget as it is.

Our new set is the Zanzibar line by Target. The plates are square and feature a black/brown base with 'animal-ish' amber/brown striping around the edge. I gotta tell ya, I don't know if there is a way to describe this set and have it not sound icky without proper pictures. Anything resembling tiger spots or stripes is immediately suspect as I see it. And in many kitchens these pieces would look downright gaudy.

But obviously I decided in favor of the Zanzibar line--and I should mention the hubby likes it too. The stripes are muted and I think the style will tie into our new space marvelously! But, being that it's stark I didn't feel clear glass would be a proper accent. And as far as bowls, it is possible to have too much of a good thing, ie Zanzibar and simple black.

It was also at Target that I found an amber glass serving bowl, perfect for a large salad. I thought it lovely and on sale for $12 I decided it was a go. It answered the question on how I would put together a working dish set without everything screaming Zanzibar. And after the bowl, I spotted tinted wine glasses at Marshall's as well as a set of black bowls (scaled in size) which also mix in nicely.

It's true that tint in wine glasses will interrupt the pure color of the drink from showing. And will Nick be able to properly swirl his red chianti watching it 'form legs' without the clear glass he's used to? I don't know, and that might be a fair arguement against colored stemware.

But, I promise to not throw away the 2 'regular' glasses we have and save them for his continued use; and for any visitors who simply refuse to mix amber with Columbia Crest merlot.

Wine drinkers lived through the color crazy '70s (or are responsible for it) and I think that given my promise to exercise more guardianship over bold colors that we're revisiting from that era, my new home will look absolutely fabulous. Yes, in part due to colored glass.

Friday, February 13, 2009

Triple Feature

I like to think I'm pretty good at singling out uniqueness when it comes to people and their facial features, but recently I've been stumped a time or two by a few actresses fairly new to the scene. I thought the newest add to SNL, Abby Elliott, also acted in Paul Blart: Mall Cop; however this is not the case.
Jayma Mays played Charlie on Ugly Betty, was also in a few episodes of Heroe's and starred in Paul Blart : Mall Cop as the 'Love Interest' Amy.

Abby Elliott is one of the newest adds to SNL. She's yet to justify her place there, IMO, but given Kirsten Wiig is her competition, it's gonna be tough. Anyway, the reason why she's on this list though is her 'girl next door look' which left me thinking it was her that starred in Paul Blart. Although after study of them both, Jayma is clearly much cuter.

Anna Faris looks to have had plastic surgery recently and most often keeps her hair platinum blond, which is helpful in distinguishing her--but looking at photos where she is reddish-blond and caught in a pose which doesn't drill in on her new nose, she also very much has 'cute girl next door' profile as the two above.

Sunday, February 08, 2009

Red, Yellow & Green Tasty Things (P.1)

You'd be right if you had a hunch that my last post (The Latest Thing to Hate) was intended for 'the other blog.' I guess Blogger's dashboard is testing the limits of my intelligence. It appears juggling two blogs was apparently more than I could handle at that given moment in time.

I decided though--after noticing the 'infraction on posting policy' a good 24 hours later--to leave the post where it lie as Abnormull has been pretty bare the past few months. Just a few posts back are thoughts of leaving Hong Kong, which were fresh oh, a good 8 months ago. So yea, whatever I can do to get this blog moving onward and upward...

Today I took my sister Abby to the local community college where the results of a math test she took awaited her. We had hoped for better news, but she's on the right track and will be where she wants to be in a month or so. I am sure of it.

After completion of that pivotal errand we made a pit stop at Radio Shack to browse cell phones; after all, what else is of more importance to 'kids' of her age...? I don't know if she'd understand my calling her a kid from time to time, but no arguing that 20 year olds are very youthful. It's perhaps that youth that accounts for thinking 2 weeks (the time until her next math test) is a lifetime away.

At 20 it's common to see how much you are capable of compared to just a few years back when there was so much out of reach. True enough, and yet my eyes still see a hint of baby fat and undeniable tenderness. The older we get the more we feel responsible to help youngins move in what we perceive is a 'good' direction; and the younger we are, the more we feel we have a whole lifetime ahead of us to investigate so many questions which 'those old people' want to answer for us.

The cell phone options dissapointed and so we made our way to Auburn where a movie theatre and host of other time wasters awaited us. I made sure to stop in at Bed, Bath & Beyond which is not known for it's edibles yet strangely is the one place I found a certain veggie chip wanted by Nick. When he asks for veggie anything, I listen intently and I speedily procure. I'd looked at a few supermarkets to no avail and then, when I least expected it (truly) there I saw the Jensen's Orchard product I so wanted. It doesn't take long for us to work through 7oz of a salty snack and pretty soon after our first bag was empty I regretted not buying more.

Abby followed as I rushed into Bed, Bath and Beyond knowing they might be low on veggie chips. On a visit last night to the Seattle location Nick and I found only shelves hawking some other vacuum-sealed, puffy, bagged snack. Auburn too had moved on from veggie chips to the new red aluminum bags of salted crisps. I searched every inch of BB & B's food presentation and was elated to find 2 remaining bags of the prized reduced fat spinach and tomato potato chip imitators.

While BB & B had moved on from veggie chips, I had not. Making my way to the register the cashier asked if I'd found everything I was looking for. I said, 'Well except for more of these chips." Not loosing out on an opportunity to move product, he offered to check the back for any stragglers. I accepted the offer. I hadn't planned on buying 4 bags--but given how hard I'd looked for these things and given I had no promise of ever finding them again--I went ahead and invested $14 in 28oz of crisps.

To be continued...

Saturday, February 07, 2009

"She took me to the garden... (P.2)

...where I guess they grow the burgers..." (shout out to DC Talk)

With a trunk now full o' veggie-ish junk we decided lunch was in order. Red Robin was a mere 2 blocks away and our stomachs mere moments away from french-fry satisfaction. Once our butts were firmly planted in booth seats and our eyes had canvased the menus, we conferred that one meal should be shared between us. Not due to light appetites mind you, as DeLands are born with hearty cravings.

But, given Red Robin's promise of unlimited fries and our desire to keep down expenses we knew 1/2 a burger each would do. We settled on a garden burger since Abby doesn't care for beef burgers and I don't care for sun-dried tomatoes nor bruschetta both featured in the chicken burger she'd suggested.

It's a funny thing. Abby and I agree on what to buy at at the grocery store when the munchies hit, but sit us down in a restaurant and it's difficult to share a meal. We did agree, however on the impact of the Gardenburger.

"Not bad, but not as good as I'd hoped." I said. She nodded.

I had high expectations of the thing given a few reviews I'd heard recently. This wasn't my first introduction to burgers from the garden, but it's been a few years and there are some products that deserve another look or try from time to time. The patty tasted of oats, rice and had a real nice spicyness, but it wouldn't have done the trick if I'd had a true burger craving.

I am a huge fan of the recent King County regulations that stipulate nutrition information must be supplied at all chain eateries. We gandered at the stats on the Gardenburger--about 600 calories given we'd added a slice of cheese on top of ours. Half of that wasn't too bad for a lunch, but we each would go on to finish two servings of fries dipped in ranch dressing. We didn't bother doing the math to assess the damage on that indulgence.

Having the deets on the stuff that goes into your pie hole doesn't guarantee great decisions. But every step in a healthier direction is good, right?

The cost was about $8 each, a bit high for 50% of a meal and the most I'd spent in a little while given my new attempts to curb spending. But not bad for an outing with the sister and we can't argue we didn't walk away full.

To be continued...

Saving Lotsa Dough (P.3)

In the last month or two Nick and I have been frequenting Jack in the Box and Taco Bell when the urge for prepared food hits. We've given up old habits of visiting Red Robin, Olive Garden or Azteca atleast once a week. The experience of J-Box (as we call JITB) in comparison to O.G. isn't exactly equal, but when the bill comes, an average total of $8 versus $33 feels like a small sacrifice with a big gain.

My handling of finances has never been an area I could boast about. It is embarrassing in a way to own up to the spending norms I've long held. From the time I joined the corporate world til now, I've never experienced a true downfall in funds--something to be thankful for. There have been moments where's it's been one income supporting us two persons, but even then I made moderate purchases at Macy's when I wanted to. Fifty dollars here, thirty dollars there.

I'm not a great saver. I wish I were. I don't find it easy to resist $15 home decorations at Ross, or a $40 sweater at Macy's or that $7 chunk of specialty cheese.

My purchases, for over a decade now, have been made keeping a loose mental register of what remains in the bank account. I may spend more on food than desired but less on household needs in a given month and very rarely do we see an overdraft charge or a bill set aside. I don't spend what I don't have. I don't charge 'nice-to-haves' to credit card and I don't buy a new pair of shoes if it's going to mean the 'need-to-haves' don't get paid. If you see where I'm going...

It used to be good enough, my ability to avoid debt.

Today we live in a rough economy unlike anything I've known in my time. I grew up partaking of powdered milk and huge blocks of cheddar cheese courtesy of a local food bank and we had our moments were food stamps were our sustenance and a happy meal was a real treat. But, more of today's children are likely to share that experience then had been the case in the 80's and 90's.

The less than thrilling state of economics has yet though to really rock my world. Sure I have to fork over another dollar for this, another dime for that. And a portion of Nick's quarterly bonus is in jeopardy as his company's performance isn't peaking quite where they'd like it to. But, all in all we could still be 'Red Robin regulars' and 'the $7 hunk of cheese buying family' if we wanted to.

However, there is a new factor influencing our financial future. We've recently signed papers on a townhome here in West Seattle. We are thrilled. 1,500 square feet of all new construction. While I might have previously thought that too small in comparison to 2,700 sf we had in 2005--fast forward to the new us that have lived in roughly 750sf for the past 3 years... Perhaps we're better off having passed through the trying times 2006 and 2007 brought us.

Altough townhome management did not accept our offer (that shaved several thousand off the list price) setting our eyes on this townhome was not an OTT decision, btw. In the end we agreed to take the plunge at about 6% more than we planned to spend. After hours spent gazing at homes adjacent to run down bowling alleys or with Taco Truck trailers as neighbors we confirmed this top pick was worth every dollar.

Moving into our brand new yellow-gold home will not require us to eat Top Ramen or swear off movie theatre's or never see another hardcover book or banish every craving for Starbucks lattes. It's just that our definition of 'moderation' when attempting to live by the "all things in moderation" mantra has changed.

In preparation for life as we'll know it in the new home, we've begun thorough analysis on our spending. We are memorizing budget amounts by expense category and keeping those figures forefront every time we enter our debit card pin number or sign a receipt. Moderately reigning in our money has resulted in several hundred dollars in savings. It is quite a thrill. We are quite easily able to adapt to norms necessary to accompany our 'townhome-in-the-city living' and then some.

The new me likes to brag on food related spending being down by 40%.

Here are a few ways we make that happen.

When the urge for pizza hits it's frozen pizza over Pizza Hut. I purchased a 3.99 DiGiorno pizza that came with a free 2 liter of Diet Coke. You can't beat $2 a person!! For something a little fancier, our splurge is Papa Murphy's which we LOVE. Previously though we'd always get 2 pizzas since Nick favors 'All-Meat' and I heart Chicken Garlic. Now, I either make do with his pick (since I dont hate it) or he concedes that some of the white sauce on my half might just have to touch his half of pepperoni. The second pizza never did quite cover a full second meal, so it really was not easy to substantiate the his and hers pizza habit. When you can eat more than half a pizza (think thin crispy crust) often you do.

I don't buy .80 yogurt just cuz it's good and in front of me. I watch for sales and expect .60 on average. Yogurt does go for cheaper, but I haven't yet agreed to abandon Yoplait.

I buy whatever snack is on sale. Several bags of Pepperidge Farm Goldfish crackers (normally 2.25 to 2.50) are sitting on my shelves since Albertson's offered them this week for $1.

I buy 80/20 ground beef instead of 90/10--unless there's a sale to make up the difference. Eating cheaply does result in less healthy choices from time to time. But while I dont want to end up on the operating table having saved money on groceries, I feel confident Nick and I were taking in just as much saturated fat doing things the old way. Out intake is just now spread out in more moderately fatty items versus the 'very-healthy' to 'crazy-bad' roller coaster we often lived on.

As outlined above, I lean more toward .99 tacos at Jack in the Box (which are crazy gross and crazy good, btw) over $12 burgers and $4 sodas at Red Robin.

We buy 'Toasted Oats' by Safeway instead of Cheerios. Store brands are usually about 25% to 50% less. Sometimes they taste a bit inferior, but most often it's good enough.

Coffee for the pot at home is not always Starbucks. I regularly picked up $12 a pound grounds for Nick and now, it's gotta be $7 a pound or less.

I dont throw things like '100 calorie packs' into my cart at Target just because I am there and they look good. These kind of ad-hoc snacks usually cost a good 30% more when at regular price at non-grocery stores.

We do make some exceptions like for Veggie Chips which are $1 more a bag over Lays, but worth it. And then there's the 1.69 for 5 cheesecake filled Hershey's kisses, because Nick likes them that much.

We're no longer that culinarily whimsical couple that decides dinner by the day using recipes that might not allow for items currently in our fridge or on our shelves. Making use of what we have is our first priority. There's less waste and more savings if dinner doesn't cater to our wanderlusting toungues as much as to what sits in our fridge.

As Nick would say it's more of a FIFO way of living (first in first out) than LIFO (last in first out) so we use what we first had versus succoming to the moment and using what we just took in. Nick's wanted for so long to run our home in a bit more of a business-orderly manner. Perhaps he's won on that one.

And so, those are just a few ways we're saving dough.

Thursday, February 05, 2009

The Latest Thing to Hate

The Super Supplements commercial... "Look at her. She's prepared... blah blah blah..."
Is it possible to despise a TV ad more? Only slightly.

I like my kids puffy, not my eyes...

Wednesdays are babysitting days and boy do I LOVE them. Last Tuesday night though it became clear to me I had to 'call in sick' cuz I had a very puffy infected eyelid that was sure to be with me when I woke up the next morning. And some moms don't take kindly to babysitters sharing bacteria with their children...

It turned out, fyi, to only be a stye (which healed following 48 hours of waiting and by replacing my eye make-up as it can store bacteria) - but the last time I went to sleep with 'the puffy eye' it resulted in my waking up with said Michelan-man-ish eye being swollen shut. Yea. It was ugly and the receptionist at Virginia Mason was sure to tell me so as I check-in hoping to get an answer on what the heck was up with my eye-turned-marshmallow. It turned out, accordingly to the doctor who was less frank than the receptionist, that I had something deeper in my eyelid (vs bacteria near the eyelashes which causes a stye) and so the remedy I'd need was anti-biotics. Thankfully those pills worked their magic, all except for restoring my dignity.

Try to imagine needing to call the boss to tell him you're staying home cuz "You have a Chalazion which is a ruptured sweat gland in your eyelid which has caused redness and puffiness and pain and swelling..." Yes, unforgettably embarrassing.

So there I was dreading that I once again I had to 'call a boss' to discuss puss and germs and my eyes. Not heartwarming in the least. Not only did I not have a good lead in to said necessary conversation, but I was so sad about missing my cuddle time with the kids. I am attached to these dude's and princesses. One's and 2's and 3's and 4's (ok it stops there, ha ha) are my favorite ages! They are soo cute.

Today Carter says, "Daddy." Pause. "Hugging." I said, "Do you need a daddy hugging?" And with enthusiasm he says, "Yea." - Carter often utters single words but always with enthusiasm. And only 2, yet already knows his way around the toolbox.

Shori - His family just moved to West Seattle from Switzerland and so he's new to the group, and needed lots of cuddling. He cried, gently, but was made better by some squishy hugs. I am ok with that responsibility!

Evan - (or EE-Vee as we call her) is as cute as ever and 2 also! Today she was bent on managing 2 baby strollers simultaneously. One which had 2 babies in it. A girl after my own heart, she's like, "I've got this down, I can handle 3 at once!" And always the talker, today was no exception with questions on, "What that boys name" and "Why he doing that?"

We had a baby boy in the group. And by baby I mean 5 months old. It would have made quite a cute picture to capture the 2 year olds as they played with the toys attached to the baby-walker the little guy was in. His circular play-chair was surrounded by kiddos!

Nikkolai (or Niko as he's called) was here today. I always make sure I get my hands on him for atleast awhile when he shows up. He is about 9 months old and has the softest skin ever! I know, I know, don't all babies... but his wins out. And his cheeks have so much soft, cushy baby fat to gush. I just love it!!

Madeline and Owen and Elliott and Jonathan were not there today. We missed them.

Milo was tired. I managed to give him a few hugs but in the end we had to bring in Mom. Poor little guy is stressed these days, and so is Mom.

Elsie was cute in pink and very happy. Kinda quiet today, but very busy playing. She is adorable and I am glad she didn't cry as when she does, I feel her pain. I feel similar to her in some odd way I guess so her tears leave me worried she's scarred for life.

Jacob (or Jake-y as I call him) was so busy today, running all over! It's so nice to see him settled as he went through a tough anxiety phase a month or so ago. Now, little to no crying!

Zoe, our 4 year old, was cute in her little coordinated outfit and witty observations. Loved the brown leg warmers!

Gabriel talked to me for perhaps the first time. His mom co-babysits with me so he's usually around her if he needs anything!

That's not the entire group... but it's what comes to mind in recapping this morning. Can't wait til next week to play with the kiddos again!